VIP – Appendix B: VIP Curriculum Resources

KINDERGARTEN – GRADE 3

Day 1: Violence Against Women & Safety Planning
 
Books
 
Holmes, Margaret M. (2000). A Terrible Thing Happened.
Washington, DC: Magination Press. ISBN 1-55798-642-8 (hc); ISBN 1-55798-701-7 (pb)
BCSTH Library Call # HQ 784.V55 HOL 2000
 
Videos
 
Prin, John. (1993). Tulip Doesn’t Feel Safe.
Link to preview retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.films.com/ecTitleDetail.aspx?TitleID=24876&r Minneapolis, Minn.: Johnson Institute/Hazelden. Link ISBN 978-1-59285-570-4 BCSTH Library Call # AV HQ 784.V55 TUL 1993
 
Kidsmartz (May 26, 2020). Tell a Trusted Adult.
Kidsmartz (May 26, 2020). Tell People No.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.kidsmartz.org/videos/tellpeopleno
 
Online Resources
Kid Smartz. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.kidsmartz.org/TeachingTools
 
Saugsted, Mary (2020) Sacred Learning Space. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.sacredlearningspace.ca/blog/2020/3/6/talking-to-kids-about-consent
 
Aswell, Sarah (2018) The Complete Guide to Consent at Every Age.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/consent-at-every-age
 
Day 2: Self Esteem

Books

Carlson, Nancy. (1990). I Like Me! New York: Puffin Books. ISBN 0-14-050819-8 BCSTH Library Call # BF 723 CAR 1988

Kranz, Linda. (2006). Only One You. Flagstaff Ariz.: Rising Moon. ISBN 978-0-87358-901-7 (hc) BCSTH Library Call # BF 723 KRA 2006

Palmer, Pat. (2011). Liking Myself. Weaverville, CA: Boulden Publishing. ISBN 978-1-892421-53-1 BCSTH Library Call # BF 697 PAL 2011

Parr, Todd. (2001). It’s Okay to be Different. New York: Little, Brown. ISBN 978-0-316-66603-9 BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.E6 PAR 2001

Spellman, Cornelia. (2003). When I Feel Good about Myself. Chicago, Ill.: Albert Whitman & Co. ISBN 978-0-8075-8901-4
BCSTH Library Call # BF 697 SPE 2003

Online Videos

Sesame Street (Feb 21, 2015). What Makes You Special?
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LrPm7BasRBo (K- Grade 1)

Sesame Street (Jan 15, 2009). I’m Really Glad I’m Me.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E9NSeBocfDY (K – Grade 1)

FableVision (June 16, 2017). The Reflection in Me.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=12&v=D9OOXCu5XMg&feature=emb_logo (Grades 2-3)

Stories Like Us (Nov 20, 2013). The Kids Guide to Confidence.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=31&v=j2oCP_wk1TA&feature=emb_logo (K- Grade 3)

Candyseed Stories (May 8, 2017). Henry & Leslie (A Children’s Story about Confidence & Self Love)
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=69&v=A2RlHM8xfmM&feature=emb_
logo (K- Grade 2)

Tedx Talks (Oct 30, 2017). We are all Different (and That’s Awesome!) – Cole Blakeway.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_
continue=267&v=sQuM5e0QGLg&feature=emb_logo (Grade 3)

Day 3: Expressing Emotions

Books

Bailey-McKenna, M-C. (2015). What if I… helping students to survive and thrive at school. Calgary: CTC1990. ISBN 978-0-9940-5-391-6 BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.S75 BAI 2015

Barnham, Kay. (2017). Feeling Scared! Minneapolis, MN: Free Spirit Publishing. ISBN 978-1-63198-254-5 BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.F4 BAR 2017

Cain, Janan. (2000). The Way I Feel. Seattle, Wash.: Parenting Press. ISBN 978-1-884734-71-7 BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.E6 CAI 2000

Daly, Cathleen. (2014). Emily’s Blue Period. New York: Roaring Brook Press. ISBN 978-1-59643-469-1 BCSTH Library Call # HQ 77.5 DAL 2014

Guanci, Anne Marie. (2007). David and the Worry Beast: Helping Children Cope with Anxiety. Far Hills, N.J.: New Horizon Press.
ISBN 978-0-88282-275-4 BCSTH Library Call # BF7 23.S75 GUA 2007

Kraulis, Julie. (2013). Whimsy’s Heavy Things. Toronto: Tundra Books. ISBN 978-1-77049-403-9 BCSTH Call # BF 723.S75 KRA 2013

Krueger, David W. (1993). What Is a Feeling? Seattle, WA: Parenting Press. ISBN 0-943990-75-0 (pb) BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.E6 KRU 1993

Medina, Sarah. (2008). Worried. Chicago, IL: Heinemann. ISBN 978-1-40349796-3(hc); ISBN 978-1-403498038(pb) BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.E6 MED 2008 WOR

Parr, Todd. (2009). The Feel Good Book. New York: Little Brown. ISBN 978-0-316-04345-8 (pb) BCSTH Call # BF 723.E6 PAR 2009f

Parr, Todd. (2009). The Feelings Book. New York: Little, Brown. ISBN 978-0-316-04346-5 (pb)
BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.E6 PAR 2009

Polland, Barbara Kay. (1975). Feelings: Inside You & Out Loud Too. Millbrae, Calif.: Celestial Arts. ISBN 0-89087006-3
BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.E6 POL 1975

Online Videos

Math and Learning Videos for Kids (July 31, 2014). Controlling Emotions for Kids. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGET9fNNlkw (K- Grade 3)

Sesame Street (Jan 26, 2015). Name that Emotion with Murray. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZxfJicfyCdg (K- Grade 1)

Sesame Street (June 6, 2017). Elmo shows Emotions. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dO_I0harbQg (K- Grade 1)

Miss Molly (March 28, 2018). The Feelings Song. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-J7HcVLsCrY (K-Grade 1)

Sesame Street (Sept 13, 2013). Sessame Street: Dave Matthews and Grover Sing about Feelings.
Retrieved on July 10, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Po5lHYJJQfw (K- Grade 1)

Kids Want to Know (March 12, 2017). Why do we lose control of our emotions?
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3bKuoH8CkFc (Grades 2-3)

Teaching Aids

Parr, Todd. (2010). Feelings Flashcards: a great way for kids to share – and learn about – all kinds of emotions. San Francisco: Chronicle Books.
ISBN 978-0-8118-7145-7
BCSTH Library Call # AV BF 723.E6 PAR 2010

Workbooks, Activity Books, Curriculum

Kuypers, Leah M. (2011). The Zones of Regulation: a curriculum designed to foster self-regulation and emotional control. San Jose, CA: Think Social Pub. ISBN 978-0-9825231-6-2 BCSTH Library Call # BF 632 KUY 2011

Pudney, Warwick & Whitehouse, Eliane. (1996). A Volcano in my Tummy: Helping children handle anger: a resource book for parents, caregivers and teachers. Gabriola , BC: New Society Publishers. ISBN 0-86571-349-9 (pb)
BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.A4 PUD 1996

Radburn, Ruby. (2008). The Feelings Artbook: promoting emotional literacy through drawing. Milton Keynes, UK: Speechmark. ISBN 978-0-86388-674-4 BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.E6 RAD 2008 Snel, Eline. (2013). Sitting Still Like a Frog. Boston: Shambhala. ISBN 978-1-61180-058-6
BCSTH Library Call # BF 161 SNE 2013

GRADES 4 – 6

Day 1: Violence Against Women & Safety Planning

Online Videos

DayOneNY. (February 9, 2018). Sunshine – Don’t Confuse Love & Abuse – Day One. Retrieved from https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=19&v=1L6HB97lbrQ

One Love. Video library that can help provoke honest conversation and inquiry about relationship violence. Retrieved from: https://www.joinonelove.org/relationships-101/

Online Resources

Saugsted, Mary (2020) Sacred Learning Space. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.sacredlearningspace.ca/blog/2020/3/6/talking-to-kids-about-consent

Aswell, Sarah (2018) The Complete Guide to Consent at Every Age. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/consent-at-every-age

Day 2: Self Esteem

Online Videos

LoveLyLieKie. (February 6, 2012). Love Yourself – A Video Dedicated to Girls and Boys Who Struggle with Body Image.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2Mn0TvDbaY&t=1s

VOX ATL. (March 1, 2017). I am … I am not … Teens’ Identity. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpO27mNYMIc

Tedx Talks (Oct 30, 2017). We are all Different (and That’s Awesome!) – Cole Blakeway TEDxWestVancouverED Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_
continue=267&v=sQuM5e0QGLg&feature=emb_logo

Band Together Project (Oct 7, 2014) I’m Good Retrieved from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=2&v=jl-5PdLYAt0&feature=emb_logo

3 tips to boost your confidence – TED-Ed Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=20&v=l_NYrWqUR40&feature=emb_logo

Workbooks, Activity Books, Curriculum

Schab, Lisa M. (2009). Cool, Calm, and Confident: a workbook to help kids learn assertiveness skills. Oakland, CA: Instant Help Books. ISBN 978-1-57224-630-0
BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.A74 SCH 2009

Day 3: Expressing Emotions

Online Videos

Kids Want to Know. (March 12, 2017). Why Do We Lose Control of Our Emotions? Retrieved from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3bKuoH8CkFc&t=39s

Controlling Emotions for Kids.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGET9fNNlkw

Sipos, Marcell. (October 6, 2015). Inside Out – Riley Argues With Her Parents. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t4okAfKCwRk&t=8s
(The BCSTH Library has a DVD of Inside Out available for borrowing AV BF 723.E6 INS 2015)

Wisemind School. (July 28, 2015). Identifying Our Feelings. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VL5MvZKgVZA

Why do we have feelings? Feelings and Emotions for Kids.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3fTRWpf-eH4

Kids Want to Know (March 12, 2017). Why do we lose control of our emotions?
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3bKuoH8CkFc

Teaching Aids

Free Spirit Publishing. (2010). Feelings in a Jar. Minneapolis, Minn.: Free Spirit Publishing. ISBN 978-1-57542-913-7
BCSTH Library Call # AV BF 723.E6 FEE 2010

Workbooks, Activity Books, Curriculum

Huebner, Dawn. (2018). Outsmarting Worry: an older kid’s guide to managing anxiety. London: Jessica Kingsley. ISBN 978-1-78592-782-9
BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.A5 HUE 2018

Khanna, Muniya S, & Ledley, Deborah Roth. (2018). The Worry Workbook for Kids: Helping children to overcome anxiety & the fear of uncertainty. Oakland, CA: Instant Help Books. ISBN 978-1-62625-963-8
BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.A5 KHA 2018

Plummer, Deborah M. (2010). Helping Children to Cope with Change, Stress and Anxiety: A photocopiable activities book. London: Jessica Kingsley. ISBN 978-1-84310-960-0
BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.S75 PLU 2010

Simmonds, Jennifer. (2014). Seeing Red: an anger management and anti-bullying curriculum for kids. Revised and updated. Gabriola Island, BC: New Society Publishers. ISBN 978-0-86571-760-2
BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.A4 SIM 2014

Day 4: Healthy Relationships

Books

Romain, Trevor & Verdick, Elizabeth. (2018). Cliques, Phonies, & Other Baloney. Revised edition. Minneapolis, MN: Free Spirit Publishing. ISBN 978-1-63198-242-2
BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.I646 ROM 2018

Online

AMAZE Org. (Feb15, 2018) What Makes a Relationship Healthy. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UB9anEZx9LU

AMAZE Org. (April 13, 2017). Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gn7ZQ2x0cOE&t=2s

Smith, Johnathon. (December 22, 2016). Zootopia – Judy Gets Bullied Moments. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K9IqrTRbHDA

Children of the Street. (March 11, 2013). ‘I shared a photo.’ Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Avm7nr1kZhg

New Brunswick/Nouveau-Brunswick (September 18, 2015). Private pictures rarely stay private. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYRwMal3Cf8

Workbooks, Activity Books, Curriculum

Caselman, Tonia & Cohen, Beth. (2008). All About Boundaries: Teaching children about drawing the line.
Chapin, SC: YouthLight, Inc. ISBN 978-1-59850-048-6 (pb)
BCSTH Library Call # LB 1027.5 CAS 2008

GRADES 7 – 9

Day 1: Violence Against Women & Safety Planning

Books

Giggans, Patricia Occhiuzzo. (2013). When Dating Becomes Dangerous: a parent’s guide to preventing relationship abuse. Center City, Minnesota: Hazelden. ISBN 978-1-61649-471-1 (pb)
BCSTH Library Call # HQ 801.83 GIG 2013

Laushway, Lynda (2000). Freedom from Fear: the how-to guide on violence prevention, inspired by teens for teens. Salt Spring Island, B.C.: SWOVA. ISBN 0-9685550-1-2 (pb)
BCSTH Library Call #: HQ 799.2.V56 LAU 2000

Levy, Barrie. (2006). In Love and in Danger: a teen’s guide to breaking free of abusive relationships. Emeryville, CA: Seal Press.
ISBN 978-1-58005-187-3
BCSTH Library Call # HQ 801.83 LEV 2006

Wallis, Pete & Wallis, Thalia. (2018). What Does Consent Really Mean? London: Singing Dragon. ISBN 978-1-84819-330-7
BCSTH Library Call # HQ 27 WAL 2018

Online Videos

DayOneNY. (February 9, 2018). Sunshine – Don’t Confuse Love & Abuse – Day One. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=19&v=1L6HB97lbrQ

JoinOneLove. (October 13, 2015). #ThatsNotLove campaign|Because I Love You – Delete| One Love Foundation. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UL4fPxW-nBQ

Button Poetry (September 2, 2013) One Colour. A spoken word poem performance by Neil Hilborn and Ollie Schminkey. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OnSuR3bFWcQ

Watchwellcast (April 25, 2013). How to Leave an Abusive Relationship. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=62&v=lwNr0eQmmuI&feature=emb_logo

Online Resources

One Love. A large collection of videos to help youth develop tools and familiarity with signs of an unhealthy relationship. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.joinonelove.org/videos/

Love is Respect. This website has a thorough coverage of topics. loveisrespect’s purpose is to engage, educate and empower young people to prevent and end abusive relationships.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.loveisrespect.org/

Saugsted, Mary (2020) Sacred Learning Space. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.sacredlearningspace.ca/blog/2020/3/6/talking-to-kids-about-consent

Aswell, Sarah (2018) The Complete Guide to Consent at Every Age. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/consent-at-every-age

Workbooks, Activity Books, Curriculum

Leutenberg, Ester A. & Liptak, John J. (2013). Teen Violence Workbook: facilitator reproducible self- assessments, exercises & educational handouts. Duluth, MN: Whole Person Associates, Inc. ISBN 978-1-57025-270-9
BCSTH Library Call # HQ 799.2.V56 LEU 2013

Lippett, Robyn & Fairholm, Judi. (2016). Healthy Youth Relationships: teen dating violence prevention for adults who work with youth. Ottawa: Canadian Red Cross. ISBN 978-1-55104-653-2
BCSTH Library Call # HQ 801.83 LIP 2016

Roberts, Anita. (2001). Safe Teen: Powerful Alternatives to Violence. Vancouver: Polestar Book Publishers. ISBN 1-896095-99-2
BCSTH Library Call #: HQ 799.2.V56 ROB 2001

Day 2: Self Esteem

Books

Macavinta, Courtney. (2005). Respect: a girl’s guide to getting respect and dealing when your line is crossed. Minneapolis, MN: Free Spirit Pub. ISBN 1-57542-177-1
BCSTH Library Call #: HQ 798 MAC 2005

Online Videos

K, Meghna. (September 16, 2016). SELF-ESTEEM AND TEENAGERS. Retrieved from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UsjedQ8vhNY


VOX ATL. (March 1, 2017). I am … I am not … Teens’ Identity. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpO27mNYMIc


The School of Life (February 1, 2016). Self Compassion. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-kfUE41-JFw


CBC News: The National. (February 24, 2014) How Social Media is Affecting Teens. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QWoP6jJG3k


TEDxYouth. (February 8, 2013). Meet Yourself: A User’s Guide to Building Self-Esteem: Nico Everett.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOrzmFUJtrs

Workbooks, Activity Books, Curriculum

Bluth, Karen. (2017). The Self-compassion Workbook for Teens: mindfulness & compassion skills to overcome selfcriticism & embrace who you are. Oakland, CA: Instant Help Books, ISBN 978-1-62625-984-3
BCSTH Library Call # BF 697 BLU 2017

Liptak, John. (2011). Teen Self-esteem Workbook: facilitator reproducible self-assessments, exercises & educational handouts. Duluth, MN: Whole Person Associates, Inc. ISBN 9781570252549 BCSTH Library Call # BF 724.3.S36 LIP 2011


Taylor, Julia V. (2014). The Body Image Workbook for Teens: activities to help girls develop a healthy body image in an image-obsessed world. Oakland, CA: Instant Help Books. ISBN 978-1-62625-018-5
BCSTH Library Call # HQ 798 TAY 2014

Day 3: Expressing Emotions

Workbooks, Activity Books, Curriculum

Alvord, Mary Karapetian & McGrath, Anne. (2017). Conquer Negative Thinking for Teens: a workbook to break the nine thought habits that are holding you back. Oakland, CA: Instant Help Books. ISBN 978-1-62625-889-1 BCSTH Library Call # BF 724.3.R47 ALV 2017


Micco, Jamie A. (2017). The Worry Workbook for Teens: effective CBT strategies to break the cycle of chronic worry and anxiety. Oakland, CA: Instant Help Books. ISBN 978-1-62625-584-5 BCSTH Library Call # RJ 506.A58 MIC 2017


Nelson, Jill, Ph.D. (2008). Helping Teens Handle Tough Experiences: Strategies to Foster Resilience. Minneapolis, MN: Search Institute Press. ISBN 978-1-57482-248-9 (pb) BCSTH Library Call # HV 1421 NEL 2008


Sunderland, Margot. (2012). Bothered: Helping Teenagers Talk About Their Feelings. Milton Keynes UK: Speechmark.
ISBN 978-0-86388-908-0 BCSTH Library Call # HQ 799.2 SUN 2012


Taylor, Julia V. (2007). Girls in Real Life Situations: group counseling activities for enhancing social and emotional development. Champaign, Ill.: Research Press. ISBN 978-0-87822-540-8 BCSTH Library Call #: HQ 798 TAY 2007


Tompkins, Michael A. (2018). The Relaxation & Stress Reduction Workbook for Teens: CBT sills to help you deal with worry and anxiety. Oakland, CA: Instant Help Books. ISBN 978-1-68403-009-5
BCSTH Library Call # RJ 506.A58 TOM 2018

Online Videos

Wisemind School. (July 28, 2015). Identifying Our Feelings. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VL5MvZKgVZA


Anne Hilde Vassbo Hagen (February 6, 2015). Alfred & Shadow – A Short story about emotions.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJOjpprbfeE

Sentis. (November 26, 2012). Emotions and the Brain. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xNY0AAUtH3g

Day 4: Healthy Relationships

Books

Fredin, Heather et al. (2017). Rethinking Resiliency: how understanding our world can help us bounce back. London, Ont.: London Family Court Clinic. BCSTH Library Call # BF 723.R46 FRE 2017


Free download available. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from http://www.lfcc.on.ca/training- resources/resources/


Noon, Saleema & Hickling, Meg. (2016). Talk Sex Today: what kids need to know and how adults can teach them. Kelowna, BC: Wood Lake Publishing Inc. ISBN 978-1-77064-813-5 BCSTH Library Call #: HQ 53 NOO 2016


Van Dijk, Sheri. (2015). Relationship Skills 101 for Teens: your guide to dealing with daily drama, stress, & difficult emotions using DBT. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications Inc. ISBN 978-1-62625-052-9 (pb)
BCSTH Library Call #: BF 511 VAN 2015

Online Videos

DayOneNY. (February 9, 2018). Sunshine – Don’t Confuse Love & Abuse – Day One. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=19&v=1L6HB97lbrQ


myHealth for Teens & Young Adults. (February 22, 2017). What Teens Think About: Healthy Relationships. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DPb_B0pTBoQ


Psych2Go. (August 28, 2018). 12 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kCQIDvEnrTg


Psych2Go. (Nov 25, 2018). 5 signs to leave a relationship. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ZT2mqasfcY


AMAZE Org. (April 13, 2017). Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gn7ZQ2x0cOE

Common Sense Education. (January 11, 2019). Teen Voices: Sexting, Relationships, and Risks. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZwVT6WnPQY


Common Sense Education. (August 18, 2014). Ally’s Story: Second Thoughts on Sexting. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nsfcN2Hi_ts


Department of Premier and Cabinet Victoria. (May 28, 2017). Healthy Relationships. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UL4fPxW-nBQ


Eagle Nation Network. (October 21, 2015). The Dangers of Sexting. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SuBxI5OGdlw


Children of the Street. (March 11, 2013). ‘I shared a photo.’ Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Avm7nr1kZhg

 
New Brunswick/Nouveau-Brunswick (September 18, 2015). Private pictures rarely stay private.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYRwMal3Cf8

Online Resources

BC Society of Transition Houses. (2014) Love is … postcards. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://bcsth.ca/?s=cards


Love is Respect. (ND). Handouts. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/download-materials/


Common Sense Organization. Helping students use technology responsibly to learn, create, and participate. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.commonsense.org/education/video/digital-citizenship

GRADES 7 – 9

Day 1: Violence Against Women & Safety Planning

Books

Giggans, Patricia Occhiuzzo. (2013). When Dating Becomes Dangerous: a parent’s guide to preventing relationship abuse. Center City, Minnesota: Hazelden. ISBN 978-1-61649-471-1 (pb)
BCSTH Library Call # HQ 801.83 GIG 2013

Laushway, Lynda (2000). Freedom from Fear: the how-to guide on violence prevention, inspired by teens for teens. Salt Spring Island, B.C.: SWOVA. ISBN 0-9685550-1-2 (pb) BCSTH Library Call #: HQ 799.2.V56 LAU 2000


Levy, Barrie. (2006). In Love and in Danger: a teen’s guide to breaking free of abusive relationships. Emeryville, CA: Seal Press.
ISBN 978-1-58005-187-3 BCSTH Library Call # HQ 801.83 LEV 2006


Wallis, Pete & Wallis, Thalia. (2018). What Does Consent Really Mean? London: Singing Dragon. ISBN 978-184819-330-7
BCSTH Library Call # HQ 27 WAL 2018

Online Videos

DayOneNY. (February 9, 2018). Sunshine – Don’t Confuse Love & Abuse – Day One. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=19&v=1L6HB97lbrQ


JoinOneLove. (October 13, 2015). #ThatsNotLove campaign|Because I Love You – Delete| One Love Foundation. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://youtu.be/4JYyHa03x-U


Watchwellcast (April 25, 2013). How to Leave an Abusive Relationship. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=62&v=lwNr0eQmmuI&feature=emb_logo

Day 2: Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships

Books

Noon, Saleema & Hickling, Meg. (2016). Talk Sex Today: what kids need to know and how adults can teach them. Kelowna, BC: Wood Lake Publishing Inc. ISBN 978-1-77064-813-5 BCSTH Library Call #: HQ 53 NOO 2016


Roberts, Anita. (2001). Safe Teen: Powerful Alternatives to Violence. Vancouver: Polestar Book Publishers. ISBN 1-896095-99-2
BCSTH Library Call #: HQ 799.2.V56 ROB 2001

Van Dijk, Sheri. (2015). Relationship Skills 101 for Teens: your guide to dealing with daily drama, stress, & difficult emotions using DBT. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications Inc. ISBN 978-1-62625-052-9 (pb)
BCSTH Library Call #: BF 511 VAN 2015

Online Videos

myHealth for Teens & Young Adults. (February 22, 2017). What Teens Think About: Healthy Relationships. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DPb_B0pTBoQ


Psych2Go. (August 28, 2018). 12 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kCQIDvEnrTg


AMAZE Org. (April 13, 2017). Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gn7ZQ2x0cOE


Department of Premier and Cabinet Victoria. (May 28, 2017). Healthy Relationships.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UL4fPxW-nBQ

Online Resources

BC Society of Transition Houses. (2014) Love is … postcards. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://bcsth.ca/?s=cards


Love is Respect. (ND). Handouts. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/download-materials/


Common Sense Organization. Helping students use technology responsibly to learn, create, and participate. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.commonsense.org/education/video/digital-citizenship

Day 3: Cycle of Abuse and Consent

Online Videos

Button Poetry (September 2, 2013) One Colour. A spoken word poem performance by Neil Hilborn and Ollie Schminkey. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OnSuR3bFWcQ


Planned Parenthood (2015). How do you know if someone wants to have sex with you?
Retrieved Retrieved on July 9, 2020: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNN3nAevQKY

Cal State San Bernardine (May 20, 2016). Cycle of Violence. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0Q2bqLYjnY


Planned Parenthood (2015). When Someone doesn’t want to have sex: What is Consent? Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QSDjSetlGiw


Lauras House (Oct 16, 2013). Verizon Hopeline Teen Dating Violence Awareness PSA. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=271&v=lkhhSI5- JcU&feature=emb_logo


Western University (2015). Cycling Through Consent. Retrieved on August 9, 2020 from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-JwlKjRaUaw


Blue Seat Studios (2019). Enthusiastic Consent!
Retrieved on August 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AqBQH1e7XwQ

Day 4: Online Safety & The Bystander Effect

Books

Lohmann, Raychelle Cassada & Taylor, Julia V. (2013). The Bullying Workbook for Teens: activities to help you deal with social aggression and cyberbullying. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications.


Who Are You? Steering Committee (2013) Who are you?: a toolkit for conducting primary prevention of sexual
violence with young people (DVD & booklet).

Online Videos

Common Sense (2018). Social Media, Social Life: Teens Reveal their Experiences. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GGGDfciqyvw


Robert Land Academy (2012). Stand Against Bullying. Don’t be a Bystander.
Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ruBqetaMd5g

eSafety Office. What is image based abuse? Retrieved on March 21, 2024 from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WcFpaeuQ81I


Queensland Department of Education. Sharing Intimate Photos and Cyberbullying. Retrieved on March 21, 2024 from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0jBIIAjeGFY


Department of Justice Ireland. ‘No Excuses’. Intimate Images Awareness Campaign. Retrieved on March 21, 2024 from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7yQcyPWu8M


Department of Justice Ireland. Intimate Image Abuse- Serious Consequences. Retrieved on March 21, 2024
from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcXjnxSGenc

Online Resources

LoveIsRespect.org. Setting Healthy Boundaries. Retrieved on March 21, 2024 from: https://www.loveisrespect.org/everyone-deserves-a-healthy-relationship/how-to-set-boundaries/


Common Sense Organization. Helping students use technology responsibly to learn, create, and participate. Retrieved on July 9, 2020 from: https://www.commonsense.org/education/video/digital-citizenship


DayOneNY. Safety with Technology. Retrieved on July 31 2020, from: https://www.dayoneny.org/safety-withtechnology


NeedHelpNow.ca. Retrieved on August 9, 2020 from https://needhelpnow.ca/app/en/


Erase =expect respect and a safe education. Retrieved August 9, 2020 from https://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/erase

Takeitdownnow.nmec.org. Retrieved on March 21, 2024 from https://takeitdown.ncmec.org/


C3P. Canadian Centre for Child Protection. C3P Supports Enhancing Online Safety of Canadian Children. Retrieved on March 21st, 2024 from https://www.protectchildren.ca/en/


MediaSmarts. Digital Issues. Retrieved on March 21, 2024 from https://mediasmarts.ca/digital-medialiteracy/digital-issues


MediaSmarts. Sexting. Retrieved on March 21, 2024 from https://mediasmarts.ca/digital-media-literacy/digital-issues/sexting

BCSTH (2019). What Is Digital Dating Violence? Retrieved on August 9, 2020 from https://bcsth.ca/ techsafetytoolkit/what-is-digital-dating-violence/


Tech Safety Canada (2024). Teen Digital Dating Violence Toolkit. Retrieved March 21, 2024 from https://techsafety.ca/resources/toolkits/teen-digital-dating-violence-toolkit


BCSTH (2019). Social Networking Safety for Youth. Retrieved on August 9, 2020 from https://bcsth.ca/techsafetytoolkit/social-networking-safety-for-youth/


BCSTH (2019). Misusing Communication: Texting and Sexting. Retrieved on August 9, 2020 from https://bcsth.ca/techsafetytoolkit/misusing-communication-texting-and-sexting/

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