Digital dating violence is a pattern of behaviours that control, pressure, or threaten a dating partner using digital technologies. Digital technologies are electronic tools, systems, devices and resources that generate, store or process data. Digital technologies include social media, online games, multimedia, mobile phones or the Internet[1]. Common examples of digital dating violence include texting and misusing social networks to bully, harass, stalk or intimidate a partner. Often this behaviour is a form of verbal or emotional abuse that is being perpetrated online.
In a healthy relationship, all communication is respectful whether in person, online or by phone. It is never OK for someone to do or say anything that intimidates another, lowers their self-esteem or manipulates them. Teens may be experiencing digital dating violence if their partner:
If you know someone who you think is experiencing digital dating violence, encourage them to chat with a trusted adult or seek help from one of the organizations listed below. Often digital dating violence may be part of a continuum of gender-based violence that can be both online and in person. BC teens are not alone and there are confidential safe support services available for them.
[1] Hinduja, S. & Patchin, J. W. (2020). Digital dating abuse: A brief guide for educators and parents. Retrieved on September 22, 2020 from www.cyberbullying.org.
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